Frequently Asked Questions
FAQs
What is boudoir photography?
Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography designed to celebrate your confidence, beauty, and individuality. It’s about capturing you at your most radiant, in a way that feels empowering and authentic to you.
What should I wear?
Your session is all about you, so wear what makes you feel amazing. This could be lingerie, your partner’s shirt, a favorite outfit, or whatever you feel comfortable in—it’s entirely up to you. If you’re unsure, we’re happy to offer suggestions during your consultation.
What should I expect during a boudoir session?
When you arrive at our Swan Valley studio, you’ll be greeted with a warm welcome, bubbles, and light snacks. You can relax while our team prepares for your session. Whether you’ve opted for professional hair and makeup or a natural look, our female posing assistant will guide you through every pose, ensuring you feel comfortable and look your absolute best.
Do you offer professional hair and makeup?
Yes! You can choose to have professional hair and makeup done before your session, which will help enhance your natural beauty and give you a polished, photo-ready look. If you prefer to come as you are, that’s perfectly fine too!
Do I have to purchase prints or products?
No, there’s no obligation to buy anything. After your session, you’ll have the opportunity to view your images and select from a range of digital and printed products. We’re here to help you choose only what you truly love.
Why choose a male photographer for boudoir?
Choosing a male photographer for your boudoir session may feel unconventional, but it brings unique advantages that can elevate your experience and the artistry of your images.
My focus is on creating timeless, elegant images that highlight your authentic beauty through light, composition, and storytelling. Working closely with our female posing assistant, we ensure that every step of the process is comfortable and inclusive. Her presence provides balance, guidance, and an additional perspective, helping craft poses that are both flattering and empowering.
Together, we create an environment where you feel seen, celebrated, and in control of how your story is told. This collaboration allows us to move beyond traditional notions of the male gaze and instead celebrate you as you are, through your own lens.
The result? A boudoir experience that’s uplifting, safe, and uniquely tailored to you. At Oak and Grey, we’re here to redefine boudoir photography—not as an act of being seen through someone else’s eyes, but as a celebration of how you see and embrace yourself.
Do I need to know how to pose?
Not at all! Our female posing assistant and I will guide you every step of the way. You’ll be shown exactly how to pose, and we’ll work together to find the most flattering angles that feel natural and empowering.
How do you keep my images private?
We take your privacy very seriously. Your images will never be shared without your explicit consent, and we use secure systems to store and deliver your files.
I’m not sure if boudoir is for me. What would you say to someone who’s hesitant?
Boudoir photography is for everyone, regardless of age, size, or experience. It’s about celebrating yourself in a way that feels right for you. If you’re feeling unsure, we’re here to answer any questions, address any concerns, and create a space where you can feel empowered to step out of your comfort zone.
How do I book a session?
Simply contact us via our website or social media to discuss your vision and schedule your session. We can’t wait to help you create something truly special!